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The Lost Art of Civil Debate: How Social Discourse Affects Youth Mental Health

Writer: Stuart GrayStuart Gray


Remember when coffee shops buzzed with friendly political debates? When disagreeing friends could share a meal without tension? The pre-2020 era wasn't perfect, but civil discourse seemed more achievable. Today's youth face a different reality.

The Numbers Tell a Story

Recent mental health statistics paint a concerning picture. The CDC reports that between 2019-2021, the percentage of high school students experiencing persistent feelings of sadness or hopelessness increased from 37% to 44%. Emergency department visits for suspected suicide attempts rose 51% among adolescent girls.


The CDC data comes from the "Adolescent Behaviors and Experiences Survey (ABES)" conducted during January-June 2021. The specific statistics can be found at:

  1. Primary CDC source for the 37% to 44% increase in persistent feelings of sadness/hopelessness: https://www.cdc.gov/healthyyouth/data/abes.htm

  2. The 51% increase in suicide attempts among adolescent girls is from this CDC report: https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/71/su/su7103a3.htm


Beyond Digital Walls

While social media often takes the blame, deeper issues lurk:

  • Fear of social ostracism for questioning mainstream narratives

  • Reduced face-to-face interaction skills post-lockdown

  • Information overload without critical thinking tools

  • Echo chambers reinforcing existing beliefs

Breaking Free: The Board Game Renaissance

Surprisingly, traditional board games offer a solution. They create safe spaces for:

  • Strategic disagreement without personal conflict

  • Face-to-face social interaction

  • Critical thinking development

  • Healthy competition and debate

Honey Badger Charity Youth Top Games for Youth Development:

  1. Sherlock Holmes Consulting Detective (Deduction Game)

  2. Diplomacy (negotiation skills)

  3. Settlers of Catan (resource management, negotiation)

  4. Chess (strategic thinking)

  5. Betrayal at House on the Hill (collaborative (100 different scenarios, problem-solving)


    Nowadays, board games can be costly and inaccessible, especially if you have no one to play with.  Solution a Community Hub. The Honey Badger Charity Youth Club and No Guilt Cafe.

The Path Forward

Youth centers and community hubs play a crucial role in rebuilding civil discourse. They provide neutral ground where young people can:

  • Practice respectful disagreement

  • Develop critical thinking skills

  • Build real-world social connections

  • Share diverse perspectives safely

The solution isn't forcing agreement – it's creating spaces where disagreement doesn't mean disconnection.


A Call to Action

As community leaders and youth advocates, we must provide safe spaces for young voices. Not to tell them what to think, but to help them learn how to think critically and engage respectfully.


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